I have a theory...

the internet will ruin all relationships. How you ask? Oh, please, sit back as I enlighten you into the world of why.

Okay, so everyone and their mom has facebook, myspace, etc. That's all fine and good. The problem is that each of these social networking sites has mini feeds so that you can see what all of your friends on that site are doing. So say your boyfriend has a bunch of pictures tagged of him making out with some random girl, and the pictures are dated from the last weekend. He said he was going home for the weekend. Even if you don't catch that, chances are one of your friends will.

So where does that leave you, except confused, right? Right. So it's hard to trust someone who
is saying things to you and then showing up on these websites doing completely different things. I'm not saying that people aren't free to do whatever they want. I'm just saying back before facebook and myspace, it was a lot easier to cheat on your signifigant other. At the very least, it was much more difficult to get caught lying to them.

Now in no way, shape or form do I support cheating. I think cheating is stupid and immature, and if you want to cheat, spare your signifigant other's feelings and dump them.

Even if you're not cheating on your signifigant other, it's very easy for people to think that you are cheating. The best solution to this problem? COMMUNICATION. Don't stalk your boyfriend or girlfriend on the web. Talk to them, try and have a normal relationship. Don't let your friends tell you about stuff they've seen on your guy's facebook. Have faith that your guy is a good guy, (and I hope he is!) and just have fun together.

This all coming from the single girl down the street. I have no real dating advice. I suck at it myself, so to each their own. Good luck, world!